Compatibility is not about hobbies or taste in entertainment. It is about fundamental alignment in five core dimensions that determine whether a relationship can function long-term: life trajectory and values, sexual compatibility and polarity, conflict resolution styles, attachment and intimacy needs, and financial philosophy and resource management. Get these dimensions wrong and no amount of passion or shared interests will save the relationship. The brutal reality is that compatibility matters more than attraction. You can be wildly attracted to someone who is fundamentally incompatible with you. The attraction creates intense short-term chemistry but the incompatibility destroys the relationship long-term. Most...