Polarity and Presence Most men lose their women not through cheating or abuse but through becoming comfortable, complacent, and predictable. They stop maintaining the masculine presence that attracted her initially. They stop creating polarity that generates sexual tension. They become her best friend, her roommate, her emotional support system, but they stop being the man she desires. The relationship becomes stable and safe but sexually dead. She still loves him but she is not attracted to him anymore. Eventually she either leaves or stays but becomes resentful and sexually unavailable. Understanding how to maintain attraction long-term prevents this death spiral....