The Foundation of Real Commitment Most advice on making men commit is manipulative nonsense. Play hard to get. Use jealousy. Give ultimatums. Trap him with pregnancy. These tactics might force a man into commitment but they do not create genuine desire to commit. They create resentment and a man who stays out of obligation rather than genuine choice. Real commitment comes from a man deciding you are the woman he does not want to risk losing. The fundamental truth is that men commit when the benefits of commitment outweigh the costs and when they perceive you as higher value than...